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if your fiancé wants to have a threesome before you got married and you told him no multiple times after him bringing it up, how would you react? how would you react if after you told him no once again, he brings up wanting to at least watch someone fuck you...? honestly i’m in shock him asking this and not just dropping it after me clearly not wanting to do this because I know it would effect our relationship. I don’t understand how he would be ok with seeing someone he loves and wanting to marry get fucked by someone else? I honestly feel kinda disrespected, and considering my morals...don’t even get me started on that.

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He has a cuckholding fetish.
It needs to be addressed now before you get married.
Make your boundaries clear. Tell him that’s not something you will ever be interested in.
Be prepared for it to affect your relationship.

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My fiancee got stuck in that whole threesome thing too. He wanted to have one before we got married and possibly into our marriage. He pestered and pressed and pressured daily off a long time.
It was disrespectful and it shook me to my core.
I left him and met the man who is my husband now. It was the best decision of my life. 
My advice to you is to walk away. Hes never gonna drop it and you are never going to be comfortable with it so that's that.

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I mean, ask once, whatever. But you said no and he’s still asking. I’d ask him if he still wanted you to marry him, because one NO is plenty enough to drop it.

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No means no. No doesn’t mean keep asking until you get the answer you want. 
I agree with Tayler’s comment though. This needs to be addressed ASAP before getting married.

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Obviously this is something he wants/is into and something that you don't want/wont entertain the idea of (which you have the right to do so!). 
If he can't respect that and you two can't come to an understanding on boundaries there will be serious issues in your marriage. 
This is something you need to sort out before you're married.

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I mean I don't think it's cause he doesn't love you. My fiancee and I have had a 3 way before with another guy and we want to have one with a girl before we get married. We love each other, but the sex isn't related to it, it's just sex. 
The issue is more that he doesn't take no for an answer, not that he wants to try it

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It seems his fetishes vary wildly from yours. I wouldn’t recommending you all getting married simply because he will always feel he is missing out since you won’t be helping him experience his fetishes and you’ll always feel disrespected and like you’re not enough because he won’t be happy. Find someone who meshes with you on ALL levels.

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My advice would be to seriously talk about it before you get married. Because if he is pressuring you multiple times now, it will definitely happen in your marriage. If the fetish/sex act is something he’s always wanted to experience, but is off the table for you, maybe you guys could get creative. Like you could get one of those suction cup dildos and use it doggy style while giving him a blow job to simulate another partner in the mix, or incorporate a blow up doll or something like that to where he gets to pretend a little but you aren’t morally or emotionally compromised. Tough stuff...good luck!

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