Should you always let someone know if you’re cutting them off?

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I don’t need to explain to someone why they’re too toxic to have around me anymore. If I cut someone off they’ve been warned.

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If I cut someone off then it’s for a very good reason, and I don’t have to tell them that reason. 
Not everyone thinks they have toxic behavior so I would rather not spend hours trying to tell a person why I no longer want to be around them.

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Nope ✂️

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I don't tell them. That's inviting discussion and debate. The whole point of cutting someone off us to not have anything to do with them.

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I never have. I just block and move on. What’s the point in telling them? That’d just start more drama.

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Not at all.
Especially if you are dealing with a narcissist or someone emotionally/mentally controlling.
They will just guilt you into staying.
If you need to run and not look back, do it!

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No, I don’t owe anyone an explanation or a reason as to why I’m cutting them off, especially if they’re incredibly toxic.

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I guess it depends. My husband is considering dropping his best friend based off what my husband believes is a moral decision the friend (and his wife) has to make soon. I have no idea if the friend is aware of my husbands strong feelings and if it would make a difference knowing before the decision is made. My husband would tell his friend in this case why he no longer wants to remain friends and wouldn’t just ghost him. But I have ghosted people. I’m not fond of it but the friendships weren’t as strong.

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It really depends on the situation.
Yeah I know, we don’t need to explain ourselves if we don’t want to - but in some situations it’s the right thing to do. 
But if you know that talking about it with them will cause more harm than good, then definitely do what is best for yourself.
I’ve definitely cut some people out without an explanation and I don’t regret it because I needed to.

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Cutting them off socially or financially?

Should you always let someone know if you’re cutting them off?

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