Scared of giving birth to big baby 😫

Sa

Hi ladies! I'm 38 weeks atm, and at 36 weeks Baby was estimated at 7lbs3oz. My daughter was 7lbs4oz at birth, and I had a bunch of tears and a haematoma that took MONTHS to heal.

Has anyone got any success stories with 2nd births of bigger babies, or will I have to make friends with my haemorrhoids and destroyed down-belows? 😭