I’m coming here because I’ve held back so much from every one. My husband and I have been together for 11 years since i was 17. We’ve been married almost 4 years. A little background he comes from a wonderful family for the most part other than his dad being an alcoholic. We see his dad from time to time but he can’t stand to be around him because of him drinking. We spend a lot of time with his moms side of the family! We’re all so close and I love them all so much.

My husband has always loved to drink too and I don’t mind a few drinks every now and then but it’s really hurting our relationship and no matter how much I beg or cry and plead he sees nothing wrong. Let me explain, we’re on vacation as we speak and everyday all day is centered around drinking no matter what we do. He drinks all day until he can’t even take anymore. And came to bed just now asking why I didn’t love him and when i said I do love you I just wish you would have came to bed earlier he flipped it on me and said it was my fault I didn’t stay up. I get it’s vacation but we’ve been going all day and I was just tired.

I really do love him with all of my heart but sometimes I just don’t think I’m happy anymore. I feel like through the week when I’m playing the perfect housewife everything is great but when the weekends come I have to drop all of that and become this wild alcoholic with him and that life just isn’t for me. I’ve stated how I feel multiple times and it’s always I’ll get better and I’ll calm down but nothing ever changes and if it does it’s for a week or two and he’s right back at it. I really want to save my marriage but I’m just at a loss at what I should I do?