Hemmorroids 🙃

I had a baby 10 months ago. I got hemmorroids shortly before giving birth and they worsened after my vaginal delivery. I STILL have them and I am pregnant again. I absolutely hate having them. I get anxiety every time I have to go to the bathroom because I don’t want it to hurt and I don’t want to bleed. And my sexual relationship with my partner is dwindling because I DO NOT want him to see that as I’m so embarrassed by it. If you’ve had babies before, what did you do to get rid of the them? Do I need to consult with my dr? Is there some magical thing that works every time? Haha please I’m desperate!