Feeling a little defeated today

Hi ladies,

Been following this group for 2 weeks and I love how many positives there has been so far, it really has kept me positive and hopeful! I had my first fresh transfer 2/9 and caved and tested this morning 4dp5dt and it was negative, I know it’s early but I’ve seen so many test on here and get super faint lines by then! I guess I’m just wondering if theres many people who still got BFN but then a BFP on 5dpt5dt or after? Trying to hold out for a little bit of hope still I guess..