Why do some guys

Question

Feel they can act up while you’re pregnant.. I know not all but SOME! But it’s like soon as you have the baby they’re all up your ass. Do you become less attractive & boring ? I don’t understand. What do you ladies feel it is ?

Answer

Well I’m gonna tell it to you from a man’s prospective. We only see it from our prospective. But from a man’s, ok think of it this way. Your girl is pregnant. She’s getting huge. She’s uncomfortable. She’s got mood swing. She’s complaining all the time about what hurts and swells or is nauseous etc. his thought... what about me. When it was just the two of you, he was your world, your baby, you catered to him and thought he was the best thing since the invention of sliced bread. He is no longer the priority. His needs are no longer being met. His sexual needs are no longer being met because the last thing that you want is sex, yet alone giving him oral or catering to him because you are miserable. He doesn’t want to touch you because he doesn’t want to be the reason that you have a miscarriage or harm the baby and you are tired of hearing him complain so he stops asking all together. A good guy sucks it up and gets over it. A bad guy looks elsewhere. The cute girl at the office, online, etc. what Can I get away with. How can my needs be met. With sex given so freely thanks to hook up sites and only fans etc you can literally order a woman like a pizza on grub hub, they figure she won’t find out and loneliness and temptation kicks in. She flirts with him and he gives in. She thinks he is amazing and funny and adores him the way that you did in the beginning. It’s exciting and new and she does what you won’t do. She worships the ground he walks on. My amazing new boyfriend or just hooking up. Whatever it may be. He gets lazy on being sneaky and gets caught. And you find out. You are pregnant. You feel guilty because you are pregnant and stay together for the sake of the kids. While both of you are miserable down deep. Eventually he cheats again because he’s miserable with you or you aren’t giving it to him enough because you are exhausted so he again finds someone else, an escape from reality, online or in person. This time you have a kid that’s actually here. Again the cycle repeats itself until you get tired of trying and eventually have had enough and coparent instead. That’s the reality of it ladies.

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I’ve wondered this as well and it’s one reason I’m afraid to have a baby with a man. I’ve seen so many things about men changing and cheating while women are pregnant and that terrifies me.

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Good question, I’ve been wanting to know the answer to this question as well.

Why do some guys

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