So my bestfriend and I of eight years recently stopped speaking and it’s already been about 4 months since we’ve spoken. We stopped speaking because she was dealing with this guy before and it had turned out he was using her for sex so they stopped messing around. He also used her so he can get someone to babysit his daughter for free and would barely text. They had a blow out because of all this. He came around months later, and never even apologized for anything but only texted when he felt like it, and only wanted to see her at night. She never spoke up about what he was doing. She genuinely liked him so she was really hurt and felt sad and when she vented to me she said “why is this happening?” “Why is he doing this to me? i don’t understand” And as a bestfriend it is my responsibility to be honest. I told her she was allowing it. I told her she was worth much more than being seen at night and every time he texts her after not contacting her for days she always responds and that’s how she’s allowing it. I told her he never even apologized, and than her talking to him like everything was okay makes him think there’s no need to apologize and he’s doing nothing wrong. After that she started giving me dry responses and didn’t really seem like she wanted to talk. After a while i got frustrated and said , what’s up? We’re not talking now? And she said she wasn’t really in the mood to talk to anyone but was laughing and joking with people on social media. And I said okay and she said okay and we haven’t spoken since.

Since this I have been feeling like I just want to say how I feel just one time and then if she doesn’t want to speak to me she doesn’t have to. I honestly am angered because I dont feel like I was wrong her, I am honest with her as she is always honest with me. Was I wrong? Should I reach out and just say my piece or leave it alone? Thanks ladies 💙