WHAT SHOULD I DOđ??
Me and my friends with benefits decided to start dating after 3 years and it went well for about 2 months.
After a while he began asking me to change things and i tried my best to but the list was just too long so i ended up kind of yelling at him for it. Instead of understanding where i came from he said i wasnât trying hard enough and he was the only one putting in work because he was coming to see me and I didnât want him to meet my parents until we had been together for at least 3 months. I told him i didnât want to because i didnât want them to meet if he wasnât serious about us being together.
After that happened things changed, he only came over for sex and would leave 5-10 minutes after and when I confronted him about it he said since i went with it i was treating him like a hoe?
He asked to go on a break 3 months in and when we were trying to figure things out said âi donât know why i wasted my time with youâ i got pissed and ignored him for it and he said i was being a bitch for not getting over it.
We ended up getting back together a month later but two days after we did I heard from a friend that he had been talking to a friend of hers and told her he hasnât been in a relationship in a while and it was complicated.
I got into contact with the girl and told her about the situation and agreed there were no hard feelings since both of us were being lied too. I didnât give him a chance to explain and just texted him âi guess you got what you wantedâ and blocked him on everything
I was pretty beat up over it for a while and decided to unblock him on snapchat and found pending messages
Would it be bad that i want to friend him to see what he said? Im just worried that it was my message that is pending so its a 50/50 at this point.
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