Am I wrong to feel a way...

Usually when my boyfriend is at work , im home but we talk on the phone all day because that’s what he wanted & he’s able to talk and do his job. But every since ladies starting working there he can no longer talk when he’s inside his work space , and sometimes now forgets to call when that’s something he has always done. In the past I have told him , we shouldn’t be talking all day and need time to miss each other he got mad and said he wants to talk to me all day , so I said okay cool and we always talk until now. & now today he got off a 3:45 and didn’t tell me when he wants to know my every move or think I’m out doing something ( which have never ) he didn’t text me until 3:55 saying he’s off and dropped his co worker off . Which is cool but if you wanna know my every move tell me yours! And from the beginning he wasn’t okay with me socialing with guys but now he talks to all these women at his job on a friend level ( no text ) just at work which is cool but you told me I couldn’t have guy friends or talk to them? I told him how uncomfortable it made me feel and he literally just made it about himself saying at my last job he think I bought another guy a smoothie , when my girl at my job asked me to bring her one back and she paid me... saying how he’s sorry that he has friends at his job and I don’t have any girlfriends , & he starting to think I’m hanging with guys. I’m like wtf? And yeah we live together and everytime I go somewhere , I call him and say “ hey I’m going here “ & when I’m back home , I text and say I’m home... he said what about me, I sometime think you going to meet someone when you leave and I’m like how when I literally call you and tell you where I’m going... I’m just so mad because everytime I express myself , he really makes it about him or saying I’m starting problems. He has done way more in this relationship , then I could ever and he has the nerves to be the one saying he has trust issues the most when it should be me. Then all he does is drink everyday ( wasn’t like this when I first met him ) says he is depressed and when he’s mad he always say “ I wish I had my own place or somewhere I can go “ .. it’s my apartment that’s why , & says he wish he could get soemthing in his name.. ( felony ) , he wish he could because when I was living with him at his place LAST year is when he did the most dirt and I was always the one leaving now it’s on the opposite foot and he knows if I find out anything I’ll kick him out! Everytime I express myself it’s a problem and I don’t know what to do. Need some advice , and he’s 11 years older than me