Why can't guys just accept friendship?

In the past month I've lost three guy friends for practically the same reason. They decided we can't be friends because I wouldn't fuck them. One guy started the conversation with "Happy birthday beautiful 😉 just wanted to let you know I got back with my baby mama since you didn't let me smash."

Granted I know I'm better off without these guys. But it sucks that I'm out here losing people I thought were friends over the fact that they're too attracted to me. And that sounds self centered but they flat out said that as the reason we can't be friends anymore. And it's not them being mature. Because a mature guy would be able to control his sex drive.

I have a hard time making girl friends. And having guy friends is proving to be impossible. I just feel hurt that nobody sees my worth as a person to cultivate a friendship. They just see a hot piece of ass. 💔