Is silence the best?

I have had problems with my husband and we have talked everything out agreed on things but never do anything.. there is a lot more than this post but I won’t say everything it will be too long... anyways we both need to change and one of my problems is that I ask too many questions and the same questions idk why... but my husband says he’s tired of it and this could end ... idk what to do if I should keep reminding him what he’s doing wrong and what he needs to change or just shut up so he can notice it and think that he’s actually hurting me when he says stuff because she’s mad.

Like is so hard being married and not knowing what to do I feel like everything I do is wrong I feel like once things look better the next day either of us fuck it up... I’m going to the Point where I’m better when he’s not around so I won’t ask questions and he won’t get mad... I cry everyday not knowing what to do... thinking if I don’t remind him anything he won’t do it but he says that’s what makes him not change

Please let me know your opinion