Feeling neglected

I've been married for 2 years but together almost 8yrs, we used to be lovey dovey and seems like in the past 3yrs he claims he doesnt like being touched (hugs, cuddles).. says it has nothing to do with me but just in general. And it makes me feel like hes fallen out of love with me. I know I'm over reacting but it just annoys me how he doesnt think of my feelings, like I love compliments every now and then, I like cuddling and back rubs and hugs, the only time he I feel loved on is when we're intimate.. I've talked to him about this so many times and it just turns into a fight and then I start crying.. about how I feel hes changed bc we used to hold hands and what not and now it's almost weird if we do that..I feel like I'm needy bc I'm desperate for mentally and physically love any advice?