Any recommendations ?

My hair is my worst enemy, lol.

Don’t get me wrong I love my hair but I have had this problem since 04’!!

I remember in grade school when we would go up to the promethean board you can see my flyaways/baby hairs & it had ever since made me feel so self conscious. Everything I put it up in a ponytail, bun, etc, it’ll just look like I never comb/brushed my hair. When I just have my hair down, same issue & I just so fed up with it & no longer feel “good”/confident.

I have tried gel & hairspray but I hate the hard texture it leaves & when I do use them I have to wash my hair everyday instead of every 2-3days. At this point I’m just desperate & willing to try any & ever tu thing including gels & hairspray to give them any other chance?

I will post some of my pictures below (so you can see my struggle), some of them I have straightened my hair, others are natural hair & one is in a bun. (I do try to fix my hairs in every picture I take but it doesn’t/won’t do much & most of the are filtered to help blur out some of the hairs)