“Friend”

Me and my partner met at work 4 years ago in a casino.

We both stayed friends with a few of our colleagues from the opposite sex when we left the company.

However he asked me to remove a couple of guys from socials months into the relationship I did out of respect as I thought I’m never going to meet up with these guys anyway. No big deal!

3 years later we live together :)

He’s had 3 weeks off work recently so he’s been cooking a lot of gourmet meals which he sends to everyone on his Snapchat list (weird Ino) but yeah.

My instinct was telling me to check his phone one day so I did and I saw *whatsapp* messages to this old work mate who’s now pregnant stating it’s annoying when u can cook better than your mrs etc.

She also said u can ring me whenever and when I have the baby I’ll be able to drink soo. I dislike this girl which he knows and even tho the messages aren’t sexual I feel betrayed he’s talking to her. I got back from work and asked him if he had spoken with this girl he said no 😕 .. so I admitted I checked his phone earlier and asked to see it again if he had nothing to hide.

Shock the messages from this girl were gone! Now we’re not talking as he says I invaded his privacy and I should of said I checked his phone first before asking if he’d spoken with her as I already knew the answer!

ADVISE ?