Am I too sensitive ?

Question

When my husband and I have a fight he says things like “I’m tired of being depressed and angry everyday” .. that’s even after we’ve had a nice week of peace. One thing will make him upset and he says every day I’m depressed, why can’t you change and do better...
This really confuses me because I feel he takes one thing and makes it seem it’s everyday. Or he says a bigger issue with me that he isn’t saying what it is but picking at small things and makes it sound like our relationship is horrible.

Answer

Is he actually clinically depressed and needs help? Encourage and support him to seek help.

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Maybe you can try some counseling to see if it helps. As it could be him that’s depressed but blaming you as a way for help and sometimes men won’t get help on their own so if you suggest trying it together it might help him

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I would ask for examples and to explain his point? If he can’t, there is no validity to his comments.  If he keeps bringing it up, then i would suggest him to see some anger management

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Don’t you think it’s quite likely he actually is experiencing some persistent depression and mood issues? And he expressed them during arguments to reach out for help? I’d be encouraging him to seek help for his moods. I don’t think you’re too sensitive. I don’t actually understand why you’d ask that. I think he’s struggling and needs help.

Am I too sensitive ?

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