I think I lost myself ! 🤷🏽‍♀️

I been with my boyfriend for 6 years , we move in fairly quickly together ( 3 months into dating). We now have a 16 month old daughter. I’m in school & want to go back to work. The DILEMMA ! I’m not attracted to my boyfriend at all no more sexually physically nothing !!!! Kindah disgust me. It been Like that for the pass year. All he does is smoke and play the game all day , he really doesn’t help out with my daughter n I dint even know when the last time he call me beautiful or took me on a date ( I believe when my daughter was 2-3 months old ). He wear old raggedy clothes that’s burned from dropping ashes on himself. His front tooth is browning from the constant smoking. I grew up with drug addicted parents. He gives me addictive vibes , he has stolen token change n dollars out of my purse he had hound me for money for weed, he will say he’ll go out to the park with me n my daughter after he smokes but we will wait hours n when he returns he is sleep. For the pass two years he hasn’t held a stable job we was late numerous times on rent , he doesn’t want a house a good working car or even use his bachelors degree to get a good job cause that requires him to stop smoking ; n oh if he doesn’t smoke he is the most rudest n nastiest person to be around. He starting to count my money know I’m paying the back up bills since he can’t stay employed. He bashes me for not completing my degree because I was pregnant n going to school n left early cause I had to get in bed rest n had my daughter early. It’s like the only attention I get is when he wants to have sex with me. He is actively in dating website but he said they are from when we first meh I don’t believe this not the first time I seen him on a dating website. I recently was pregnant n miscarriage. In which I found out he deliberately got me pregnant again because I started going out n meeting new ppl n back with my friends but I told him I didn’t want a baby because we have no space because his sister is our room mate in a two bedroom apartment so we share a room with our one year old and if the pregnancy as successful with a new born too. . . I just want space from him . I feel like I need time to just focus on me n my child n finishing my degree but he constantly trying to hang on to me idk how to tell him I want to move out into my own place for peace.