His Dad Called
My sons dad called me today. We haven't heard from him since the whole sexual assault situation with his gf son. I honestly thought since her son confessed he was calling to apologize to our son for abandoning him when he needed him most. What he told me was "If he apologizes for bringing drama to our house, we can make up " I am just.... He wants our son to apologize for opening up about the awful stuff her son was doing to him. I tell him how messed up that is and he said " I'm not gonna argue over what did and didn't happen. It's in the past now and we all need to move on!" I went offfff. I was like "Your son can't move on! He has nightmares, panic attacks, out bursts, he won't even spend the night with his friends because he's embarrassed about wetting the bed because he's so so traumatized from her don raping him. He can'tbe a regularteenager!" He told me not to use the word rape and I'm like "That's what happened! And I'm having to help him all by myself because you're so stuck up that bitches ass that you don't give a fuck about your kid and you want to just move on! Your son is hurting and you don't give a fuck!" I actually said a lot more, but so I don't seem too crazy I'm gonna leave it at that. He said then said "Well you know what, you let him come over here so if you want someone to blame for this, blame yourself!" Then hung up. That actually made me cry. Hearing him say what happened to our kid is my fault hurt me so bad. Idek why he called if this was his shitty way of apologizing
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