Is a man obligated to be with a female if she’s gotten pregnant by him. He agrees to fill his obligations as a dad but doesn’t want to be with her. Is he wrong for not wanting to be with her? Read description

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My ex best friend trapped her boyfriend and poked holes in the condom. She was on the pill but she had started to skip pills purposely. So he started buying condoms. She told me and him this because she didn’t want to lose him & needed something to keep him in her life forever. Now he knows the truth and wants nothing to do with her just their son. Is he wrong for feeling like she ruined his life? Is he obligated to be in a relationship with her?

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He is absolutely correct. Good on him for stepping up for his kid, but he absolutely has the right not to want anything to do with the child’s mother

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Y’all really voting he needs to be with her?? Y’all just as delusional

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He’s not obligated to be with her OR assist with the child. But if he wants to then he should.

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He can tell the court and have nothing to do with baby or crazy-lady if that’s something he’s into. Or fight for custody and say she’s crazy. Or split the kid. 
But no she’s wrong and he should not reward that behavior by tying himself down to her.

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He's not wrong. She's a horrible person. He shouldn't be stuck with someone who has already manipulated him and went so far as to create a whole new person to control him and his behavior. And now he's stuck interacting with this person the rest of his life whether he likes it or not because she sabotaged his birth control.

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Of course he isn’t obligated to be with her.

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I fucked up and put he needs to stay cause fat thumbs syndrome. But listen there's no way I could even be friends with someone like that, it's disgusting what she did. Also very illegal if he has proof she entrapped him. If this was reversed and the women got pregnant cause the guy poked holes, what would your thoughts be then? Just curious.

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He’s absolutely not in the wrong here. She seems unstable. He can be a dad but he doesn’t have to be with her to be that baby’s dad.

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He is not obligated and what she did is a form of sexual assault..... honestly she should stay single until she figures out how to be a decent person and not a manipulative twat.

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No one is obligated to be with someone else no matter the reason....

Is a man obligated to be with a female if she’s gotten pregnant by him. He agrees to fill his obligations as a dad but doesn’t want to be with her. Is he wrong for not wanting to be with her? Read description

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