SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME

I have an irregular period cycle but before I became intimate it would always come the week of the 20th

Now

I had sex the 29 of aug and took a pill from backing out of the whole baby thing 😔 and I Lost the child

I than had sex again the 2nd of September and 4 days later I started spotting but it than lead to clogs of blood so I’m guessing my egg didn’t fertilize

(Blood lasted 5 days )

I than had sex the 15 of September and gotten my period on the 20th as normal

We decided to wait to try again

And had sex the 28 of September

Since then I haven’t gotten my period and it’s the 22 of October

( but here is the thing I took a pee test in the urgent care in the afternoon the 12th of this month, after drinking a whole water bottle and it came out negative I also took a blood test and it came out negative)



Does water affect the results ? Does time affect results ? Did I take it to early ? 

This app and the other app I use both calculated that I should have gotten my period the 16th

It’s been 6 days and I haven’t gotten my period

I than had sex on the 19th of this month as well

But here is how I feel

1. I’m only nauseous to certain smells

2. I have major cramps no blood

3. My cm is very clear and slimy / sticky

4. I am extremely tired but idk if it’s from working all day

5. My body is sour but I don’t know if it’s from working all day as well

( I was around a lot at work and Today I was lifting things )

6. Redness/ hotness on my face

I also took a look at my underwear today and this is what it looked like

PLEASE PLEASE HELP Me 😔