Painful penetration

Hiya!

When I get intimate with my boyfriend it really hurts when he tries to penetrate even with one or two fingers let alone his dick.

This has been the case in my previous relationships although I have managed to break my hymen when I was 18 (22 now).

Moisture/ wetness isn’t a problem as I am definitely wet but it hurts when anything gets inserted. Like enough that I’m like ‘OW GET IT OUT’.

Any tips? Xx

We’ve tried lube.

I really want to be able to have full proper sex with him, especially as we want kids in the next few years!