New surgery new problems

My wife is stressing me out... I just got out of the hospital for having a surgery and we have a 2 year old... her aunt is letting us stay at her house and due to the pandemic Everyone is doing Lyft and doordash... We are behind on our bills and so is her mom... Her mom is saying she can't work because of my difficult child... he's a toddler and nobody can handle him... her mom n aunts keep our son for 2 whole days and today they ask my wife to keep her own child over night and she makes a big scene now she's complaining to me like I can do anything... I have tubes running from my stomach for blood drainage I wobbled very slowly to the bathroom and I come out to see my son screaming and crying and she's holding him screaming and crying like she's having a nervous breakdown... I need my wife right now to stop depending on me