*update 2*Would you divorce?

My husbands been living with his dad for about 4 months now. Refuses to come home until things are “better” with us. Yet he barely

Talks to me. Almost hardly ever sees me. I have to ask to see Each other which is about maybe 2

Times in two weeks. And during this 4

Months we went a month without even seeing each other. I’m pregnant also, 5 months.. with a baby WE PLANNED! But idk if I should keep holding on or just leave... he says he doesn’t want a divorce and at first said a few times he was coming home the next day after he left, then didn’t. Then said this week. Then didn’t. And still hasn’t and “doesn’t know when” but it’s like I don’t even exist anymore. Would you leave or keep holding on..?

**ive also had off work yesterday and today, hasn’t asked to see each other. And I’m off tomorrow and hasn’t. We saw each other Tuesday for an hour at night bc I of course asked 🙃

Update: thank you all for the advice. I told him a few days ago I wanted to sit and talk and he said okay. Well I have had off a few days now and he hasn’t said a word about seeing each other, and honestly I wasn’t gonna ask this time bc I do every time we have seen each other since he’s been gone for 4 months. Today is my last day off then I work two days and he won’t come after work bc I don’t get done til 10pm. So I said tonight I wanted to talk. He told me “we will see” bc apparently his brother stopped over and “needs him” bc he’s going thru things. And I may sound selfish but what about me. I’ve needed him and have been begging him for attention and to just be my husband for months now and he’s been SO MEAN. he replied back with “yea yea yea blah blah blah” I’m so nervous to leave bc I’m 5 months along, and also have two toddlers (who aren’t his) I’m due in March and start nursing school in April. I just don’t know how I’m gonna do it. But at this point I’m tired of waiting for my husband to be a husband. I have also asked if there’s someone else and of course he says no, so who knows.

*2* So he blew me off tonight and wouldn’t come talk to me he’s hanging with his brother. I mentioned him giving up his rights when the baby is born and it would be easier for us both. We both have two kids to two other people. And he told me he would have to think about it. So I feel like him even considering f that should be my final clue.

Thank you again for all the kind words.