So my grandmother is a very religious Christian. She’s old school. No tattoos, piercings, no cussing, go to church every week, read bible every day type person. Which is fine because I’m a Christian too. But she is the most judgemental hateful person I know.

So me and my sister went to go see her today and we took our kids. First thing she said when she saw me was that how can I bring my son(20 months) out with him wearing mismatched socks. I’m sorry I don’t have time to find each and every pair and stick them together. I wear mismatched socks all the time. It literally doesn’t matter. And I told her that and she said she doesn’t care, she doesn’t like seeing it. And then she said how can I be a good mother if I can’t dress my son correctly.

THEN she asked me where my baby was(I’m 17w3d pregnant with my second kid) and I jokingly said in my butthole. She looked at me and said why do I have to talk dirty? Then she said I need to change. And I’m just like my dad(my abusive, drug and alcoholic deceased dad)

THEN when I was leaving she said to my older sister she was special. She looked over at me and said I would be special too if I wasn’t like my dad. I don’t drink, or do drugs, and I’m not abusive. I cuss and have tattoos but to her that’s the worst thing ever.

Idk if it’s because I’m pregnant and emotional but I’m done with her crap. She’s so mean and judging for someone who’s supposedly a Christian. I honestly don’t want her around me or my kids anymore. Am I being a big baby about this or am I right to feel this way? Sorry for the long post I’m just really upset and hurt