My ex broke up with me 4 days after i found out I’m pregnant. He ignored me for the longest time but has since messaged me about wanting to be apart of my baby’s life. That’s fine, I want him to be apart of the baby’s life. I have since realized the type of person he is, and I will never stick my hand in that fire again. He can be here for the baby, but as for the relationship we once had, it’s gone for good. I don’t want to be with him.

I just recently found out he’s with somebody new, and hasn’t told her he’s expecting a baby. He has me blocked on everything except my phone number so I can’t tag him in posts about the baby therefore his girlfriend and all his friends don’t really know he’s having a baby. Part of me wants to tell her just so he can’t use her as an excuse to not see the baby, and just so I know she’s aware. The other part of me feels like that isn’t a good idea and I shouldn’t do it. I know it’s 100% none of my business who he’s with, but if he’s honest about wanting to be in my baby’s life I feel like I should at least know who he’s going to be taking my baby around.

I already know some of y’all are gonna be shitty in the comments, but 🤷‍♀️