My husband told me he doesn’t love me?!

Idk what to do. We’ve been together 2 years and have a 8 month old. We’re under extreme financial stress, barely have enough money for anything , we’re just barely getting by. So I’m gonna start applying places bc I’m a stay at home mom. Anyways. He has bad emotional trauma from his mom and dad. He was physically and verbally abused by his father all growing up and pretty much took care of himself. His mom left when he was 9 and never came around until just recently. Anyways he started drinking tonight and we got in a bad fight. He told me he doesn’t love me , doesn’t love ANYONE and he never will. He said he’s not capable of feeling that and he hates that word. He said actions are all that matter and the word love means nothing and he doesn’t feel it. Idk what to do. I just cried. I’m like wow you are saying you don’t even love your daughter. I know it’s deeper than that but I can’t believe my husband is saying the words he doesn’t love us.

Btw. I have mentioned counseling so many times and he refuses. Deep down I don’t believe that he feels that way but still those words hurt so bad