Jealous husband plz tell me I’m not alone

Vent post ... please tell me I’m not alone.

FTM to a husband who has 4 others kids.

He is so jealous if I spend time with my newborn. His 50 years old but he will go around banging cupboards and swearing me because I bathed the baby without calling him or I woke up at night to feed her without waking him. I’m at the point of wanting to leave. Are there other husbands out there so jealous???