Baby shower for 3rd baby, different gender?

So I am due in March with our 3rd, its a girl! 💝 I'm so excited. 😍 My first 2 are amazing, sweet boys 💙 (4yo & 2yo). Literally maybe a month before we found out I am pregnant we gave all our of baby stuff to my husband's coworker who had nothing for her newborn.

So we basically need everything again. I have been slowly order stuff as we can. I got a convertible carseat (i got a really good deal!), ill get a carrier carseat before she is here, slowly been buy some clothes ( and bows of course lol) here and there. But we need a bassinet or small pack n play, still have our crib i think, but we need a matress, clothes, bouncer, etc. I don't expect everything that you would get with your first baby but what would you say is reasonable.

-A full shower, like on my registry ask for everything lol

-A sprinkle, ask for clothes and diapers/wipes

-Or is it unacceptable because they are so close in age, right at 2.5 years apart from my youngest.