Am i being over the top? Edit

So I have been a stay at home mom since my daughter has been born. But I have been trying to find a job that will work around my boyfriends schedule so he can stay with our daughter while I work and vise versa. Well his mom isn’t working anymore. And I am okay with his mom babysitting her ONLY if she comes to our house to watch her and thats only because she has a giant wood stove in her living room with nothing blocking it.. Our daughter is 7 months crawling she’s into everything.. they also have a dog and carpet, and there dog sheds a lot and she has periods and they let her bleed everywhere.. I told her if she baby proofed put a gate around the wood stove then i’ll be more comfortable with dropping her off there.

But i’m such a horrible person for even considering that and being uncomfortable otherwise. I told my boyfriend if it’s such a big deal I feel this way then I won’t work at all and continue finding a part time job & being a stay at home mom. but i was told i’m overreacting about dropping her off there. It’s not safe for her at all and they’re saying it’s not a big deal if it’s baby proof or not because she’s only 7 months.., am I over reacting??

Edit:

Thank you everyone! She will not go there. and the reason why we had the argument to begin with was because his mom would be uncomfortable to come here. 🙄