Starting to reach my breastfeeding limits 😭

Mamas who struggled with breastfeeding, when did you realize that it was time to just move on? The last couple of weeks (bb is a month) have been so treacherous feeding wise. I have an abundance of milk that causes so many issues with a heavy letdown that chokes and makes my baby so gassy and uncomfortable so I switched to pumping and honestly I don’t know if I have it in me to even do that. I have a fussy baby right now and I constantly question everything about my milk. Is the dairy I had making her fussy. do I have a hind milk/fore milk imbalance. Am I pumping long enough??? God all I do is pump and feed. I just constantly doubt myself and feel like maybe it’s making me and baby miserable. It’s so hard because I have literally no shortage of milk that makes it hard to stop 😭😭