Do i tell my Dr.’s Office?

So I went in for my 14 week doctor appointment and when I got there I realized they had scheduled me with a male doctor I’ve never met before. I have asked them in the past to please only schedule me with either my OB or one of the other women OB’s due to preference.

Well I decide I’ll give this doctor a chance since I’m already here and I was supposed to be getting an ultrasound per the notes my OB left from my first visit. I get into the room and the nurse bluntly tells me this new OB wants to do a pap. I say no thank you, I’ll have my OB do that at my next appointment, I don’t know this doctor and I don’t normally see male OB’s. She sasses me and says “just so you know you might have to have a male deliver your baby”. I said I know that and a male OB delivered my daughter, but when I have the chance to choose I would always prefer a woman. The nurse says ok, we will cancel the pap for this appointment.

The dr comes in and I instantly was just super creeped out. I’ve met other male doctors and never felt off like this. But immediately I wanted to leave the room. He was very quiet and I asked if we were doing my ultrasound today bc of my OB’s notes and he just says “no” and gets the Doppler. My OB has always taken like 2 minutes to listen on the Doppler but this guy spent a solid long, silent, awkward 10 minutes listening even though he found my sons HB right away and it was normal. I felt like was just watching me the whole time in a weird way, not even looking at the monitor. When he was done he just said to reschedule in 4 weeks and walked out.

I feel WAY creeped out by him and want to tell my doctors office but since there was nothing specifically inappropriate I don’t know if I can? All I know is it was such a bad feeling I got straight into my car and wanted to cry and take a shower. Do I do anything about this? Again, I’ve seen many other male doctors for other things (including breast exams) and I have never felt afraid of a doctor like that before.