I need a safe place to vent

My husband has been off work since march. He found out 3 months ago it was a permanent layoff. He hasnt bothered to look for a job. As of today, he has an interview the day before his unemployment runs out. (Next week). He stays up till 5am playing video games then He sleeps till at least noon everyday. Lately its been 2 pm. He gets mad at me if i dont wake him up but gets mad when i do wake him. We have a toddler and 1 on the way. I work part time and use every bit of money i get for bills and groceries.

He was asleep till 2 today, went the to the basement for another hour. I got our son lunch and started the dishwasher as im eating. Hes now on the couch on his phone.

He has told me he cleans the house more than i do, i dont argue cuz its pointless with him. I never do anything right. Hes always criticizing how i do the dishwasher or how i organize toys or how i sweep. I never get a thank you or anything. Im just really emotional and struggling cuz i already feel like a failure as a wife and mom. Every one just tells me to pray about it but im so so bitter at my husband.