Can your own s/o rape you?

I love my boyfriend. When he is happy, he is the best boyfriend you can ever wish for!

My boyfriend and I often get in arguments about sex. He expect to have sex every night and honestly, I don’t need it every night. Specially the week after my period.

When we get into these 4 hours long argument until 2am, the only thing that will calm him down is if we have sex.

After mentally abuse each other, not only do we need to have sex, but I have to make him feel that I want it... when I don’t. I mean, who would after being mentally fucked for hours.

I lay there, sometime in tears. I want to scream and get him the fuck off me. I cry myself to sleep most times and he doesn’t even notices it.

After we are done, everything we were arguing about, every mean thing said it’s all forgotten.. on his end anyways.

I’ve tried to talk about it with him, but never ends well. His mentality is “ I’m a man, I will have sex every night like normal couples”

I don’t know what to do. This is really affecting my. I’m growing resentment for him for making me feel this way. He always is growing resentment towards me for “ denoting him sex”

What do I do?!?