Piercing advice ?! 😭

Hey ladies ! I need some MAJOR advice. So for reference, I’m 15. Anyway, for a while I had been wanting my industrial piercing done but unfortunately, my ear anatomy just isn’t right and I can’t have it. ( my mom fully supported this btw) So after speaking with her, as we usually do, I told her I wanted my belly button pierced instead. She agreed because she had hers done at 16, but said I can only have it done “after you lose those rolls.” Because it wouldn’t look good on chubby people and i wouldn’t be able to show it off. I’d be lying if I said that didn’t hurt my feelings. Then I decided to talk to my dad about it and he said there was no way he was allowing me to get a bellybutton piercing, and I could get my nose pierced instead. Guys... my mom hates facial piercings 😭. I don’t know what to do... I’m self conscious about both body parts as is and as of lately I’ve been... kinda sad. Please comment any advice ?

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