Am I overreacting? I can’t believe he said this 😥

I was allowed to have one person at my anatomy scan so of course I invited my boyfriend, the baby’s father. He didn’t show up. It broke my heart because some places aren’t allowed to even have one person with them, but it is what it is. Of course I was excited to show him the pictures I got though!❤️ I sent him the pictures right after I got done with my appointment and let him know how perfect she was growing and she didn’t have any issues that we could tell. I guess I wasn’t expecting much but I was at least expecting him to say something nice, maybe how cute she is or something. Anything really. All he had to say was “At least she isn’t retarded” 💔 it really broke my heart that of all things, that’s all he had to say. Do you think I’m being too emotional/overreacting by being upset about this? Am I expecting too much?

We obviously have more issues than this. I’ve been trying so hard to make him feel included and be involved but he keeps himself at arms length, to put it briefly. This was just the cherry on top I guess.