Please help idk how to feed my 10 month old

I’m so confused...it’s my first baby and she’s ebf. We’ve been trying baby foods from about 5 months. She will eat them but only little amounts and some days will literally not even open her mouth enough to eat them. I’m supposed to be giving it to her 3 times a day but she is not wanting it. I do give her baby oatmeal in the morning and she loves that. And recently I’ve given her tiny bits of banana and I tried puffs and ahe literally didn’t chew it and tried to just swallow it and choked and my husband had to grab her and pat her back to make her cough it out. Idk Where to even start. Is this normal.

What should I be giving her ? 😭