What would you do

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I’ve been with my husband for almost 9 years. 
Married for over 1 year. 
I am 3 months pregnant. 
Just found out my “husband” is on onlyfans when I am not home and using chaturbate.com 
What would you do?

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I would leave him. That’s definitely cheating to me. But it just depends on what you consider cheating.

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Have you made it clear to him before that youre not okay with that?
I would be extremely upset cause those two sites I personally consider cheating

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I'm sorry to hear that.. that would definitely be a boundary for me.

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Communicate how this makes you feel and if roles were reversed how would this make him feel. I personally see these things as cheating . It’s not an excuse but if he doesn’t know how you feel about this he won’t stop. And if he doesn’t stop doing it and doesn’t take your feelings into consideration then leave . Just because he’s a man doesn’t give him an excuse to do this . I’m sorry he’s doing that .

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Well. Id be upset for sure. was this established as a boundary in the relationship ?

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I would be really upset too, but try to calmly communicate with him how it makes you feel and how would he feel if the roles were reversed. Sending hugs. 💛

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I would make it clear to him thats not okay with mr although after 9 years he should know this. And if it continues id leave . I too have been with my husband for almost 9 years and married under a year so by now my husband knows what is okay and what isn't. ( we now have 2 boys , 3yr old and newborn)

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