First time mom!!

Hi! I just found out I’m pregnant, almost 5 weeks from my calendars chart.

I don’t know where to start, I need some advice because I don’t want to tell my family till Christmas!

I also have a few questions if anyone has answers to them 😅

Are there any precautions I need to take work wise and lifting wise?

Are there any medicine I need to avoid?

What’s the best prenatal to take that isn’t disgusting?

When do you usually start doing ultrasounds?

And lastly, when can we find out the gender?