Cutting ties with toxic family for Xmas

This is my husband and I first Christmas. It is also the first Christmas I won’t be at my families house. I cut ties with them because they are toxic and always seem to make my husband and I in the wrong. I’m a little sad I won’t have a big family thing ( but I guess rihjt now there can’t even be a big event cause of covid). Idk. Any ideas to spend the day with my hubby and kitten? I might go over and spend dinner with another couple we know.