How often do YOU want sex?

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My husband and I have sex every other day and he complains about wishing I wanted sex more. It's not good enough that I'm down to have sex every other night. And he also wishes I was more enthusiastic. Just wondering if these are high expectations or maybe my sex drive is too low. Also, how often he asks doesn't really give me a chance to ask myself, lol. But I'll be honest, I wouldn't ask even if we did go a few days without it. When we do have sex I always enjoy it, it's not like I lay there like a dead fish every time. Lol.

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I never ACTUALLY want sex. Lol. But I feel bad if we go longer than 2-3 weeks. Every other day sounds exhausting to me

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HAH. once a month..maybe?

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The more my husband bugs me about it, the less I want it. I’m over it

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Sounds like he needs to spend more time chasing your toddler around.

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Right now i don’t want it at all

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Before I had my second I'd say like once or twice a week. Maybe 3 times a week. But most days sleep is more important lol. It's hard playing with your toddler, cooking meals, working a full time job, cleaning the house, etc to then turn on sexy. Especially if husband isn't going out of his way to help out or set the mood. Before I had my December baby just a few weeks ago, we did have sex more often. Like twice a week. But every day is a lot of work lol.

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I think if it were JUST up to my sex drive I could be game every other day but my god, chasing around a toddler, working a full time job, taking care of myself, our home, dogs, etc... Not a chance in hell I have that level of energy. Sometimes sleep trumps sex, it just does! Bottom line, His sex drive is high and HE needs to work that out, not you, girl.

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Have a 3month old and our 21m old. Very happy marriage but definitely still in that rough exhausted infrequent sex time with an infant whose not sleeping through the night.

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Poll results are so funny ahhaha😂

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if it were up to me, maybe once a month haha IF THAT. But since we are TTC its like everyday now

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