Manipulative kid

Anyone have had problems with their kids being very manipulative? Controlling? Lier?

I have an 11 year old who is just unbearable at this point. We all have to walk on our toes around her cause she is so demanding controlling and just know how to manipulate everyone.

I’d we get mad at her or anything, she threaten to says things that have never even happened. She already did it once and we even had cups at out home and once she saw everything that was happening she told them that she had just lied.

I’m going crazy here.