My dad is so toxic

I’m sorry This is going to be really long.

My dad has always treated me differently than my 3 siblings. It really started when I was 19 I had a boyfriend that my dad decided he didn’t like for whatever reason so I ended up moving in with my boyfriend who turned out to be an abusive piece of shit. I found out I was pregnant and I told my dad. Instantly his reaction was “that’s not my grandkid as far as I’m concerned you’re not even my daughter anymore” fast forward a couple months and my boyfriend violated his parole and got sentenced to 9 months in prison. Since my boyfriend was in prison I really had nowhere to go so I went back to my dads. My dad accepted the fact that he was going to be a grandpa and he was at the hospital when I gave birth. 3 weeks later my grandpa passed away in Florida and I lived in New York at the time. My uncle picked me up and we drove straight through to Florida. On the day of my grandpas funeral my dad came to pick me up from my moms to go to the funeral and found me on the floor having a stroke. So my mom talked me into staying in Florida where I could have better healthcare because where I lived in ny was a small town. So after I decided to stay in Florida my dad moved back to Florida too and because my brother and sister were already living with my mom she didn’t really have room for me and my daughter so I moved in with my dad. My dad and I started a home remodeling company together. Well about 2 years ago I met my current boyfriend and we had only been together for about 4 months when my dad decided to move the company to Panama City after the hurricane because there was a lot of work there. So I asked my boyfriend to move with me and he agreed although it was 5 hours away from his family. While we’re living there my dad fires me at least once a month and calls me every name in the book in front of my daughter. My boyfriend and I had talked about moving back home to central Florida multiple times but decided to stay because I had worked so hard for 6 years to make the money I was finally making. We stayed for a year and a half and my boyfriend finally decided he couldn’t do it anymore. My dad treated him like shit because he didn’t like him only because he stood up to my dad for me. My sister and her husband had moved up there about 6 months before my boyfriend left and never had any interest in the remolding company until they saw what my dad and I were making. So anyway after my boyfriend left I was very upset for days I didn’t eat I didn’t sleep. So again my dad fired me and quickly switched everything into my sisters name...that was the last time I couldn’t take it anymore. I moved in with my boyfriend and his mom. And after living there for a month my boyfriends dad died and he was heartbroken and confused and we broke up again so I rented a house with help from my uncle and it seems like my dad is trying to sabotage me. He insisted that I put my daughter in a private school an hour from my house where my sisters daughter goes to school. I was against it because it was so far from my house but he had my sister set up and he paid tuition. My daughter goes to Panama City with him when she’s on vacation from school so she is there with him now. I called my daughter yesterday and talked to her and found out that my dad was in the hospital and that my dad and my sister had left my daughter with an 18 year old boy that they’ve only known for about a month. So naturally I was pissed and I let them know how mad I was. So this morning my dad calls me and tells me I’m a scumbag mother and my daughter is way safer with him than she is with me and I said well she won’t be going with you again if you think it’s okay to leave her with a stranger. So he was like good then you can come get her. I can’t afford to drive up there because I can barely work as it’s hard to find a job that works around her school schedule especially since she can’t be dropped off until 8:30 and all I’ve ever done is construction and those jobs start at 7:30. I just feel like he does these things on purpose because he wants to see me fail he wants me to have to depend on him so he can control me. I’m sorry this is all over the place and I don’t expect anyone to read the whole thing but if you do drop a comment and let me know if you think I should just get my daughter and get a restraining order. Also he told me he’s going to kill me and my boyfriend because my daughter would be better off in foster care.