Would you stay?

Would you stay with someone you weren’t attracted to?

My husband genuinely is a good man; he takes care of my dog and I, is super supportive of my goals, and makes sure we have everything we need.

That being said, I’m not attracted to him; and he’s absolutely a terrible kisser and terrible in bed. He tried super hard to make me happy, but I’ve never had an orgasm and I dread having sex with him. We’ve tried toys, therapy, books, lingerie, etc with no real results. We didn’t have sex before marriage, so I didn’t realize this would be a problem.

I just don’t know what to do; he’s aware of my feelings, as is the therapist. I care about him, and I know he loves me, but I just don’t enjoy being sexually active with him and don’t know what to do.