I feel as if they're supposed to push you to you best and test you to your limits of trusting another individual. As a team, you both help each other achieve your goals and support one another.

But what if he wants to settle down and stay in the same state for the rest of your lives? It could be good settling down and he has a career already. But you are just finishing up your degree as a part time waitress, with dreams of living in New York and traveling the world for 2 months. He says you both can go vacation there, but what about your dreams? You have enough money independently and never thought you'd be this deep into a relationship, yet you want to pursue your goals without losing him. Yet, how?