FTM starting to panic - advice?

Question

So I’ve been okay mostly my whole pregnancy so far. I realized I’m only 4 weeks away from being considered “full term” and baby can come any time after that or possibly even before. I’m terrified of birth. I’ve never really thought about it but now that I’m at this point I have to. I’m scared of having a baby at home. I’ve never changed a fucking diaper in my life. I have a tiny peace of mind because my boyfriend has 4 younger siblings and he’s cared for babies his whole life basically. I am also full time in school so I’ll be in school luckily online but with a newborn. Back to my main worry, I HAVE TO BIRTH A BABY. I’m scared of the pain everyone has told me about, how hard it will be after, I’m scared of something happening to me or the baby more importantly.

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Read positive birth stories. Only hearing about pain and blood will just stress you out and make you tense up more.  Your body was designed for this and if it was so bad, people wouldn’t have more than one kid.

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All of this is perfectly normal. Giving birth is a big, scary thing. I was really anxious right until my water broke, and then I was completely calm. I didn’t expect that at all. Our bodies know that to do. I had an unmedicated birth and the pain was intense, but it is a pain that ends. It’s amazing how quickly you’ll feel like yourself when it’s all over. Trust your body, it can absolutely do this. 
After birth sucks. It feels like you’ll bleed forever, but I promise it’ll stop. Don’t be afraid of the clots you see. Your body has alot to expel. My doctor told me not to worry about anything smaller than a lemon. 
In the beginning, parenthood is hard. It sounds like you have a great, experienced partner who can walk you through the basics, like diaper changes. You’ll figure out the rest as you go. Rely on each other, work together. You’ll know what’s best for your baby. Don’t be afraid to call your pediatrician when you have questions. And we’re all here for you if it’s not a question for the doctor.

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I'm about to have my second, and I'm still nervous for birth! In the moment though it all does go rather quickly, your body knows what to do. Just try to relax and breathe as much as possible, you can always get an epidural or an IV pain med as well! 
As soon as baby is out, all the pain goes away. I had a 2nd degree tear and recovery was a lot easier than I imagined! Newborns basically just sleep and eat so don't be too worried about knowing everything at once. And you'll be changing so many diapers you'll be a pro in no time! Try not to panic and go with the flow and you'll do great 🙂

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I gave month in October and honestly it went by so quickly I can’t even remember the pain. I just remember seeing my baby. I was terrified too. But once it happens it’s going to fly right by. The recovery is the worst to be completely honest lol

FTM starting to panic - advice?

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