So I’ve been seeing someone since September (met him over a year ago now though) and his birthday is in December so I bought him a cool card online in October & I intended on buying him a voucher to see a chiropractor because he doesn’t like gifts, but loves a back cracking and being that this is an experience I thought it was a nice alternative. but by the time the card came in in November things went a little sour with us because he suffers w depression and wasn’t managing it well. He then got into a motorcycle accident while things were sour, and fractured his lower back. It reconnected us and things have been back in trust & it forced him to slow down (he drinks and parties lots, which contributed to his low days) but his back has come right and now he keeps finding himself into trouble. His back is better so I’m going to see about that chiropractor voucher again. i think I’m just scared because we aren’t officially together or anything but I really want to do something nice for him 🥺