My fiancé thru a fit because I set $50 to my brother who is in jail last year. And he was all like we need to discuss this first! Don’t just do that without telling me. I thought it’s not a big deal but sure, moving forward I will always tell you. Okay.

But today I’m working and then he comes into my home office and says “bae I’m going to be up all night so you want anything? I’ll be watching videos all night.” And I was like oh ok cool. B4 I said what I might want he says I bought [*famous stock trader person] video. And I just looked. He’s silent. So I make this gesture 🤷🏾‍♀️ “how much?” I say. Him: “it was just $300”.

And I said whaat? You already bought it? Why didn’t you say anything? [I just moved some money from saving to cover an over draft when bills were taken out yesterday, mind you].

So I said “why didn’t you tell me?” And he says “you were working” and I said, on my break between client calls I came into the other room and kissed you and checked on you and warmed up food, why didn’t you tell me then?” He was like “oh I was listening to the video”

SO I SAY: “I thought we talked about this kind of thing with each other? How did you drill me for sending my brother $50 but when you spend $300 it is okay? We have cycling bills 😳 and you just up and pull $300?”

⚠️so then he says “sorry I shouldn’t have done that” and I go on to say “I support everything you are working towards in learning a new skill to make money but it is the principle. You didn’t have to go behind my back, especially when you got so upset with me over $50.

So Glow, just a FYI when I spent the $50 and even now, I am the sole bread winner at this time. And I handle all of the bills. He thinks money just falls out of the sky! No, I use my degree and I work for it! I’m so grateful to be working in a pandemic from home and on weekends I work a part time job.

He quit working long ago. This we both have master’s degree’s his from an Ivy League, he never uses it. He will get a minimum wage job, work for 3 weeks and quit. I don’t complain. I support him in all he does. What is is trying to do takes a few years to take off before profits come in. I don’t tell my family he isn’t working right now. And THIS IS WHAT HE DOES!? It is the principle that when he says something it applies to only me. When he does something, it doesn’t count or “this is different”. Anyway, this whole convo took all of 3 minutes because after that he said he was getting upset and walked out of the home office I’m sitting in right now.

How you drop a bomb like that then get mad and leave? 🙄😒