I haven’t seen my boyfriend in almost 3 weeks. Barely heard from him. He said he’s going through a lot mentally. He knows I’m pregnant but he hasn’t even said anything to me. I found out the gender and I’ve been trying to surprise him when I see him but no sign of him. He doesn’t even ask about me or the baby. He doesn’t text me at all I’ve been texting him. I don’t know what to do and I feel hurt but I feel like I’m being selfish to feel hurt. Like I’m supposed to support him in a tough time but then a part of me is like well what about all the pain and stuff I’m in? I don’t know how to feel about this. He took off without telling me. One day he left the house and didn’t come back and here we are almost 3 weeks later and he’s not back and barely answers texts. Even if I leave him alone for days I won’t hear from him for days. I don’t text a lot though because he said he needs to be alone right now. I just don’t know what to make of it all. I don’t want to step on his toes but yet like idk pregnancy I thought a woman should be taken care of. I’m in a relationship yet it’s like I’m a single mom kinda thing. You know? It’s confusing.

Edit: about a week before he left he shocked me when he brought up maybe getting me a ring and makin me feel special and I think maybe that’s why it’s bothering me so much. Maybe it’s why I feel like aggravated that he’s gone idk. He said he’s going through something but I’m pregnant and going through shit too. Yet I’m holding everything together.