I’m writing this on behalf of my friend . She told me about this situation she’s in and I told her about this community.

My friend is on tinder and matched with a guy and met for a date. All was going well. They got along good.

At the end of the date she felt like she liked him enough for a second date. They were texting, and he finally told her he is actually trans.

She was totally unaware of this before the date. She doesn’t have an interest in being with a trans man. She’s not at all transphobic, it’s just not for her. She wants to have biological kids with her potential future partner .

She’s anxious because she doesn’t want to continue but she doesn’t know what to tell him and not seem like an asshole.

If he had disclosed this information beforehand, she would not have went on the date.