I just feel lost tonight.

Overall my husband and I have a strong marriage we have one recurring fight and I just feel betrayal at this point. I resent him.

His mother and me do not have a good relationship and never have. I have put up healthy boundaries in the last year and they are not being respected by him. I strongly feel like if he truly believed the things his mother has done and said to me he would never allowed it. Instead he requests I act like it didn't happen.

We need marriage counseling at this point he refuses. He also refuses to speak about it. This to me is the deepest level of betrayal as I am being stone walled. I am 30 weeks pregnant with our second child and slept in the spare room last night. I don't even know what to do.

Healthy people talk about what's wrong. Healthy marriages support eachother. I feel like he has chosen his side and it is not of his wife. This absolutely makes the situation worse.

I don't have parents I can turn to. Also our pastor is my uncle and I don't want to turn to him as I feel he is bias towards me. So I really want marriage counseling to have a new perspective and how to stop having this fight and respect. My husband used to talk about how a man leaves his family when he is married the biblical meaning of that however reality is so different with him. I have not stepped in the way of our children or him having a relationship with his mom but she is not welcomed into our home and not allowed to watch unsupervised our children and those boundaries are being crossed.

Our children are the most precious lives to me and our home is our sanctuary and he is betraying my trust and me by crossing this.